Saturday, June 11, 2011

Party Planner


About once a week I will get invited to a party. Ben loves to plan a birthday...he is a little obsessed with parties and everything it takes to have a good one. He will hand me an invitation and call me down to the play room where there will be music on his little radio with prerecorded songs (all party appropriate!) a game set up, a cake baked from his kitchen, and a gift (usually 10-30 carefully selected toys wrapped in a blanket). We make cards for our craft and then make shaved ice in our snow cone machine. He is very proud of his parties and I am flattered to be considered his constant invite (sometimes Jake gets lucky too...despite my attempts at inclusiveness sometimes it falls during Jake's naptime...which does make it easier to play snakes and ladders...Recently he has expanded the invite list...a few weeks ago he invited Grammie and Grandad...who (despite and hour round trip drive) were here before he hung up the phone and a "juice party" for his best friend Leeah. He lined up the counter with all the food his "selective eating" friend would like from apples to popcorn. She arrived, they "partied", went through the sprinkler and he called it a success. I am thinking of letting him plan a bigger one, with more people and more food...until then I will enjoy our parties for two while they last!

He is a cute one, my boy!

Back To The Farm





We sure missed the farm over the winter! Nothing feels (and smells) more like spring that the sight and sounds we can find there. The baby lambs and goats, the new addition Petunia, the (not at all!) miniature pig, the apple blossoms and the freshly manured gardens. The biggest development is that the docile, observant and calm baby of last fall has morphed into an excitable, energetic, babbling farm fanatic! Jacob LOVES the farm! He follows the big kids around doing everything they are (or he thinks he is anyhow) he feeds the animals, squeals in delight and runs around like he owns the place. It is a good thing he has his own personal Gramma to keep an extra eye on him when we go or I would find him in the goat pen.

Tuesday, May 31, 2011

A Little Something

Wonderfully Boy

Soaking in the moment
Beads fall from his check and drop down his chin.
A little uncertain he slows their quickened pace.
Tender, cautious steps-
One last look to his Mothers turned back
And closer he walks to the beckoning hole.
The sand of yesterday floods and darkens.
A raised leg
A bent knee
He plunges down hard-
Brilliantly.
His face; streaked with evidence of his feat
Rises at the turn of his mouth
And his smile turned up in the wet of the rain
Washes the naughty away.

My aunt asked me to write "something" about boys for a newsletter she does for her school. YIKES.
This kind of creative freedom is both relieving and distressing.
I can't write under pressure for one. Secondly I am too terrified that what I come up with would be completely different then what she had in mind.
So I told her I couldn't...but then I did. A little late (when the date had passed and the pressure was off...)
Jon doesn't understand poetry...he couldn't figure out what this was a bout in the least...A mudpuddle
My favorite line is "evidence of his feat" it is a double entendre...get it...feat/feet...

Tuesday, May 24, 2011

"Visit Cat"





Our neighbors cat (which we have found out has once belonged to just about everyone on our street at one point or another as one neighbor originally found him abandoned as a kitten in the woods behind our houses)whom Ben calls "visit cat" for obvious reasons, is NOT going to become our cat no matter how often he hangs around digging up our garden (which will get more plants and less weeds this week...) and wooing us with pooping in the sandbox.

Sorry boys. Not happening.

Friday, May 20, 2011

Before and After








When we purchased our home I knew there was a dream list I wanted to get to work on right away... it was toned down significantly through budgetary constraints but I was able to get creative and discover how to decorate on a budget...and show patience as all the projects couldn't get done when I wanted them to. I will give the cost breakdown because I am always curious when I hear "decorating on a budget" what does that ACTUALLY mean and does my budget and yours really mean the same thing...
I am still working on the family room, the bedrooms and the main floor bath so I won't share those...but here is the main floor...done!

Kitchen- cabinet repainting and hardware- $1300
-Table and chairs $40.00 (kijiji) These are temporary, I am looking for a distressed black set.
-Family photos in frame behind table (re purposed- covered over old painting in the frame)
living/dining room
-floors $400.00
-black sectional- $400.00 (kijiji)
-paint $250.00 (I had painted myself and then had professionals come in and do the trim when they did the cabinets)
-light- gifts
-lantern- $25.00 and plant was free
-white distressed side board and cabinet $20.00 for both (my best ever yard sale find!)
-Rustic pier one table and chairs- $350.00 (kijiji!)
-clock- $30.00 (Homescense)
-"family" wall hanging $40.00 (Homescense)
-Shag rug- $175.00 (Costco)
- Ikea buffet and hutch- $70.00 (kijiji)
-White dishes in hutch- $4.00 thrift stores (baskets were gifts)

Total- $2940

Friday, May 13, 2011

Big Boys

Ben was welcomed outside into the neighborhood club of "big kids" a few nights ago...these 5 and up boys have cool toys he has never seen the likes of like "air rockets, pokemon cards and hexbugs" they patiently showed him their toys, let him have turns, explained in great detail the health numbers on the pokemon cards while he nodded obediently in interest. They played Tag up the sidewalk and showed him the Harley in the garage across the house from us. When he ooohed and ahhhhed in enough amazement the Mother plopped him on the seat to test it out and Jack (8) gave him a motorcycle toy that he doesn't play with anymore. Nathan (5)gave him a dandelion when it was time to wonder back to our driveway which he clutched to his chest until we got home and he wrapped it in suran wrap and tucked in the pages of a book beside his bed. 5 year old boys, it would seem are the equivalent to superhero's to 3 year old boys. We can skip Disney now because it wouldn't even come close.

Wednesday, May 11, 2011

Right Now


So as we don't think our scrumptious little boys are all work and no fun let me assure you they are mostly fun and a little work (that little one is a going concern..he thinks he is 8...)

Right now...

Jacob dances like a champ...he has the rythem of his father and I but he works it out with some feet taping, hands clappping and hands waving.

Ben wants to the know the name of every street we are on...he is getting so he can give me directions! (What is this enviable link between testosterone and sense of direction?!)

Jacob points to his nose when asked about every body part...I know he "knows" the right answer though...he just loves his nose.

Ben desperately wants a pet. So far we have had "Anty" "Hoppy" "Snaily" and "visit cat" ... they have so far all died or ran away. Each time devastation in our midst. The last time "visit Cat" went back home to our neighbors house Ben came in sobbing and laid down as only the broken hearted can do on the couch. "why are you crying Ben?" "Because I just want a pet sooooooo baaaaadly...I just waaaaaant a little peeeeet to loooooove" he wailed.

Oh geez. The heartstrings yanked me right over to google where I found the most suitable of pets for the cat and dog allergic...mini pigs! Google them...you will be so jel!

Jake has no fear...at the park he will go on anything and has no sense of height or injury in the least. I follow him around for 15 minutes and then bring a bag of snacks to bribe him to stay sitting with me. It is going to be a long summer...that I pray we make through with no appendages in casts.

Ben is so independent... I love love love watching them delight in learning new things. He amazes me at how he picks up new things so quickly.

Jake is a goofball- he is silly, adorable, funny and loves to make people laugh.

Ben likes to pick out his own clothes now. Sigh...

Jake is the most outgoing toddler I have ever seen. At our library program we attended for the first time this week he marched in to the room, went around to each person, waved and said "Hi" (the word he has been trying so hard to master) then picked up a book from the librarians pile and flopped himself into the lap of another Mother who jumped with surprise as he grinned and waved the book at her. He leaned against her chest waiting for him to read while everyone else tried not to laugh.

Ben is OBSESSED with monster trucks. We have watched every video on You tube.

Jake loves bubble baths and birds.

They get along well and take care of each other. I am loving this time with them...really really loving it.
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